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Thoughts and Musings from the Desk of Pastor Joe

Do Not Let the Sun Go Down on your Anger

5/16/2018

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​There is an old saying that Christians are the only group that “shoots its own wounded” (metaphorically speaking).  I cannot speak to the accuracy (or inaccuracy) of this particular statement, but the reality of the origin of this statement lends itself to, at the very basic level, a general statement which contains some elements of truth.
      There certainly are no shortage of pundits who gleefully express their musings about this particular subject (Google this statement and prepare to be amazed), and to be clear, let us not enter into a matter of semantics with regards to the context.  At the heart of the matter is the very real act of Christian brothers and sisters who are, on any given day, dishing out or receiving hateful criticism within their very own.  The unfortunate reality of such incidents usually results in broken friendships, distrust, alienation, splits from congregations, and in some instances, unabashed hatred.  The real question isn’t “does this really happen” but rather “why this happens?”
      If I wanted to be short and concise I could simply state that Christians, while having a new nature/heart indwelt by the Holy Spirit, still face battles with the flesh.  Battles that lead us down roads that we don’t want to go down, into arenas of life that we thought might have been left behind in our old sinful state.  It is in these battles where our old sinful self tries to make a revival.  Paul speaks of these personal battles in Romans 7:15-21.  Within the confines of these battles Christians can, and do bring pain and hurt to other Christians. 
     It is on this point that it must be said; Christians can and will offend you and hurt your feelings!  To ignore that fact, or to paint a picture in your mind of a Christian who can’t offend is quite unrealistic.  You may say; “that is how a Christian should be, or they should be a reflection of Christ” and you wouldn’t be wrong.  But friends, short of this side of heaven, this ideal that a Christian is perfect, is simply that, an ideal!  Yes, as Christians we strive to be in the image of our Lord, that is what the theologian would call ‘sanctification’.  But this is a life-long process where completion occurs only when we are called to be with the Lord, or He comes back first, either way, we don’t realize a completion of it, only our Lord Jesus does.
    At this point the question turns on a hinge, it’s not a matter anymore of “why”, instead the absolute question then is “what we do with this hurt that our fellow brother or sister has given us?”  Let me offer up just a few conclusions;
  1. When others hurt you, your spiritual maturity is revealed and tested.  Your choices in response to this hurt get laid bare in the simplest degree.  You either retaliate by attempting to incur as much hurt back as you feel you received, or you deal with it by taking it to the Lord.  Should you choose to nurture the “hurt” by feeding it, tending to it, coddling it, you will then succumb to it.  What began as a foreigner and stranger to you will then take on the role as master, and it will destroy you.  Who wins then?
 
  1. Contrast that with the choice to deal with it by taking it to the Lord.  Consider the story in Luke 10:38-42.  As Jesus entered the house of Martha, it was her sister Mary who sat at the feet of Jesus while Martha scurried about, fretting over her task of caring for Jesus and his friends.  She becomes angry at Mary, yet Mary says nary a word in response, instead choosing to feed upon the Word of the Lord, and in return it is Jesus who rewards Mary with the Words and the promises of eternal life.
 
  1. When Christians are treated poorly by other Christians it is helpful to recall the mistreatment of Joseph by his brothers.  We read in Genesis 50:20 that Joseph replies to his brothers that although they intended evil for him, God meant it for good!  This can be a hard lesson to come to grips with, but placed against the context of Romans 8:28, we quickly see that all things, good and evil, work together according to the will of God, for those who love Him, and all of these things, good and evil, fulfill God’s purpose (paraphrase and bold print mine).
     When you are able to make peace with the sovereignty of God, you will also be able to make peace with those who have been hurtful to you.  Paul could not have been any clearer when he wrote in 1st Cor. 14:33; “God is not the author of confusion but of peace”.  It is our sovereign God who is constantly seeking to transform us!
 
     I find it interesting that Jesus puts the onus on the one who has been grieved to seek reconciliation with those who have doled out the grief.  Matthew 5:22-25 leaves no room for lingering anger, and just in case you thought that may be a one off, please do not forget Jesus’ response to Peter in Matthew 18:22.  Peter thought he might have been playing it smart when he suggested that to forgive his brother seven times far outweighed the ancient Judaism custom of offering forgiveness just three times.  Instead Jesus’ reply is not seven, but seventy times seven.
     In the final analysis, we live in a world that specializes in division and hostility, but yet, the Christian man and woman still tries to reach into this world, to befriend it, to bring it to the altar of our Lord Jesus, to find peace and healing.  Let us stop attacking our own, we are not called to be imitators of the world, we are called to be imitators of Jesus Christ!
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